Friday, June 5, 2026

Who's Got What It Takes? - Item 2 of 3

Doubting Doubt

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The Process

Step 3 – He is Beside Himself (cont.) 

What About Mary?

  * Who's Got What It Takes?


  My second approach:

  The question was, “What about Mary?”  The case that I have been making is that for us to say that she thought that Jesus was crazy is less plausible than to say that she didn’t.  This takes us way back to something that you might have thought I had forgotten about:  the women; those women who were at the crucifixion and who went to the tomb.

  My position then was that we had established fairly indisputably that those women possessed faith and loyalty and devotion that was absolutely unwavering, unflinching and unfailing.

  Are we to understand that Mary had less faith and devotion than they?  The account given of the women who went to the tomb does not say that Mary, Jesus’ mother, was with them.  Neither does it say that she was not with them.  However, we can understand that in their day, like in our own, the grieving mother would not be expected to have to endure all the details associated with the death of her son.

  In fact, according to the book, The Jewish People in the First Century, there were many customs and practices that were expected, if not required, of a grieving mother, customs dealing with the duration of home-stay for ceremonial purification as well as for mourning, customs regulating visitors, customs regulating things they were allowed to do, and much more.[1]

  Mary, in all likelihood, did not go to the tomb along with the other women in the story, but it was not because she had less faith than the other women.  More than that, remember that in Mark 15:40 we are told that there were women standing at a distance at the crucifixion, and we are given some of their names:  Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James the younger and of Joseph and Salome.  And it says that many other women were there as well.  They might have been at a distance, but at least they were there.  Not the men.  The men were nowhere around.

  But what about Mary, the mother of Jesus?  Was she there?  It would seem that at that time at least, she was not there.  But even if it could be said for a fact that she was not there at that time, she was not a deserter and she was there before it was all over.  In John 19:25 there she is right at the cross, along with at least three other women and the apostle John.  So, just as we said about the other women, she was there right to the end.  It seems to verge on absurdity to think that the other women had enduring faith but not Jesus’ own mother.

  Does Mary’s presence at the cross sound like someone who doubted Jesus?  Pastor X said that Mary did not understand fully until after the resurrection.  I don’t know what he means by “understand fully.”  I think the whole church was struggling to understand fully for the first 300 or 400 years of its existence.  In fact, it seems we were still coming to grips with the Word of God up through the 16th and 17th centuries and probably there are areas that we still are struggling to fully understand today.  More than that, I don’t think any of us will ever fully understand until we come before His presence.  But when we read that Mary was at the foot of the cross before Jesus died, we can show good reason to think that she was not there as a scoffer.

  “Well,” someone will say, “her doubts were earlier.  She got over it.”  (Someone once actually suggested this ridiculous notion to me.)

  So here is what we are being asked to believe:  Mary gave birth to Jesus through the supernatural power of the Holy Spirit, she had spoken to angels, she had experienced the worship of Jesus by shepherds and wise men and she raised a truly perfect and sinless Son, she had the testimony of Elizabeth and all the rest that we mentioned earlier, plus she was faithful to the end, but for a brief time, a period when Jesus was giving sermons and doing miracles and attracting multitudes of worshipers, during that period of time, Mary not only doubted Jesus’ identity but she thought He was a lunatic.

  Do you realize how preposterous that sounds?  Do you really believe that and are basing that preposterous claim, with all of the missing information it involves, on nothing more than that one phrase in Mark 3:21, which you are probably reading with distorted spectacles?

  Well then, it’s time for my third approach for how to deal with Mary.


[1] S. Safrai, author/editor, M. Stern, author/editor, W.C. Van Unnick, editor, D. Flusser, editor, The Jewish People in the First Century:  Historical Geography, Political History, Social, Cultural and Religious Life and Institutions, series Compendia Rerum Iudaicarum ad Novum Testamentum, (pub. Assen, NL, Royal Van Gorcum 1974, Minneapolis, MN, U.S, Fortress Press 1975), pp. 774-785.

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